- I understand your journey because I’m living it too
Becoming a mum again after 40 comes with mixed emotions — joy, tiredness, worries, and pride all at once. I can help other mums because I truly understand what this stage of life feels like, and I can offer empathy without judgement. I will be honest, becoming a mum again after 15 years was not easy. However, with more maturity and life experience, I feel much more ready now than I did when I was 25. I can help you by gently encouraging you to take this difficult step, even when it feels overwhelming or frightening. I will stand by you throughout the journey, offering reassurance, understanding, and support whenever you need it. You don’t have to face this alone — I will be there to listen, to encourage you, and to remind you of your strength every step of the way.
“You are braver than you believe, stronger than you seem, and more capable than you imagine.”
— A. A. Milne
- I can offer emotional support and reassurance
I know how easy it is to doubt yourself as a mum after 40. By listening, encouraging, and reminding other mums of their strengths. I can help build your confidence and reassure you that you are doing a great job. My experience has shown me that support and encouragement from other mums is extremely important, especially when you do not have additional support from your partner. Having someone who truly understands your situation, listens without judgment, and offers reassurance can make a huge difference. The emotional strength gained from shared experiences helps reduce feelings of loneliness and builds confidence during challenging times. Knowing that you are supported by others who care and understand can make the journey of motherhood feel less overwhelming and more manageable.
- I can share honest, real-life advice
With experience comes perspective. I can support other mums by sharing practical tips that have worked for me — how I manage tiredness, balance family life, and look after my own wellbeing while caring for my child. I also faced a lot of anxiety, because with life experience often comes negative experiences as well. At times, this can make it difficult to fully enjoy becoming a mum again. Every precious day with your baby should be filled with happiness, love, and positivity, rather than sadness or depression. I will hold your hand through moments of discouragement and loneliness, because I truly understand what it feels like to be anxious. You are not alone in this journey. - I can help other mums feel less alone
I know how isolating motherhood can feel, especially when most parents around you are younger. By reaching out, starting conversations, or simply being present, I can help create a sense of connection and belonging. You can reach out to me at any time, in whatever way feels easiest for you — by email, a personal message, or a phone call. There is no right or wrong moment, and no concern too small. Whatever you are facing, I will be there to listen with an open heart and without judgment. You do not have to carry everything on your own. I am always here for you — to support you, to encourage you, and to remind you that you are never alone on this journey.
“You are seen, you are valued, and you are not alone.”
- I can lead by example
By embracing motherhood after 40 and showing kindness to myself, I can be a positive example to other mums. I can show that being an older mum brings patience, resilience, and a deeper appreciation of motherhood. I have so much more to give to my children now, shaped by the life lessons, strength, and understanding I have gained over the years. Compared to when I was younger, I am more patient, more present, and more grateful for every moment. All of this I am ready to share with you — not just advice, but genuine understanding and compassion. I will stand beside you in the moments when you doubt yourself, when you feel overwhelmed or alone, and when you feel like you don’t have enough support. I am here to remind you that you are enough, that your love matters, and that you do not have to walk this journey by yourself.
At the end….
Motherhood after 40 is not just a new beginning — it is a brave, deeply personal journey shaped by love, resilience, and growth. I know how overwhelming it can feel, but I also know how powerful it is to keep going, even on the hardest days. No mum should ever feel invisible, alone, or unsure of her worth. Through kindness, shared understanding, and genuine support, we can lift one another up and find light even in moments of doubt. I am here to walk beside you, to hold space for your fears, and to celebrate your strength. You are enough. Your love is enough. And this journey, with all its challenges and beauty, is one you do not have to face alone.

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